8 CLEAR SIGNS THAT YOU’RE IN A WRONG RELATIONSHIP!

There are some signs and symptoms of a healthy or an unhealthy relationship. No relationship that has existed for sometime ends abruptly, without some warning signs. But the truth is that, we oftentimes give a blind eyes to those signs, and we pretend about them, and believe all is well, or all will be well. Even when these signs are obvious and glaring, and always stare us on our faces, we still pretend not to notice them, or cover them up because of love. But no matter how long you try to cover them up because of love, one day, the love will definitely be weakened by those negative signs, and when the centre can no longer hold, the relationship collapses. However, the earlier you take cognizance of these signs, and act to either straighten up things if you can, or quit the relationship if you cannot, the better for you. Here are 8 signs that you’re in the wrong relationship. 1. LACK OF TRUST: Trust is an essential ingredient in any relationship. Any relationship devoid of trust is bound to fail. Trust is the bedrock, backbone and foundation of any relationship, the love may bring both of you together, and its always obvious, but trust is essential to help the relationship continue and lasts for a very long time. Therefore, if you’re in a relationship where there’s no trust between both of you, you’re always suspicious of each other or every move made by either of you, or probably, the trust is one- directional. For instance, the man trusts the woman, but the woman does not trust the man in return, or the woman trusts the man, but the man does not trust the woman. That relationship will definitely fail no matter how long it lasts, except you choose to endure it. So if your partner does not trust you, he or she always suspects you, despite the fact that you always try as much as possible to be honest with him or her, then its a sign that you’re in a wrong relationship that will never end well. 2. UNHAPPINESS: unhappiness is one major cause of many broken relationships. If you’re in a relationship where you’re perpetually unhappy, no day passes without one form of quarrel or the other, or the number of times you’re unhappy far surpasses the number of times you’re happy, even when the relationship has existed for many years that both of you are expected to understand each other perfectly well and minimize the the number of misunderstanding, yet every little thing triggers a quarrel, which leads to unhappiness. Then, its a sign that you’re in a wrong relationship that will not last. Because nobody wants to be in a relationship where he or she is perpetually unhappy. The earlier you realize this, the better for you. 3. SELF-INTEREST OR SELF-SEEKING: Any relationship where any of the partner is always concerned about him or herself, or is always interested in his or her own good and benefit, without considering the other partner, and the success of the relationship, that’s the worst kind of relationship you shouldn’t be in. Relationship is for mutual benefits, not preferring yourself above the other or the success of the relationship. If you notice this, then its a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. 4. NOT BEING PROUD OF YOU: If you’re in a relationship where your partner is not proud of you, he or she is not proud of going out with you on a quality date that will endear both of you to each other, not proud of presenting you to his or her friends and families. Then you’re in a wrong relationship that will fail very soon. Because your partner is supposed to be proud of you in public, despite your look or status. 5. LACK OF PROGRESS: Nobody wants to be in a relationship where everything becomes static, no progress, even after many years of being there, you work hard, put all your best to make sure everything works well, yet no progress. Then, you’ve got to watch it, because it might be a warning sign that you’re not meant to be there. Every true relationship is expected to make progress, and move from one level to another. 6. REVENGEFUL: If you’re in a relationship where your partner never forgives and forgets any wrong you did in time past, he or she always brings it up and reminds you of it, or always wants to take a revenge on every wrong you did, then its a sign that your partner lacks forgiveness. Forgiveness is very important in any relationship, because it pacifies every misunderstanding. 7. LACK OF COMMITMENT: Your level of commitment to your relationship determines the depth of love you have for your partner. Love can’t be measured, the only way you can measure the depth of love your partner has for you, is to measure his or her level of commitment to you and the relationship. So if you’re in a relationship where your partner isn’t committed to you, he or she always gives flimsy excuses for not being with you, then, you may not be in the right relationship. 8. LACK OF RESPECT FOR FAMILY MEMBERS: Any relationship where there’s no regards for each others family members, is a negative sign al.

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13 THINGS MEN FEARS THE MOST!

1. Fear of being turned down by a woman they’re attracted to. 2. Fear of not getting the job. 3. Fear of losing their job. 4. Fear of not reaching their target. 5. Fear of not satisfying a woman. 6. Fear of losing out the woman they love to another man. 7. Fear of being ridiculed or humiliated. 8. Fear of their opinion being rejected. 9. Fear of not having money and not being able to meet up to their responsibilities. 10. Fear of losing a contract. 11. Fear of being blackmailed and loose their prestige. 12. Fear of being criticized. 13. Fear of failure. This are the 13 things men fears the most and makes them unhappy if it happens!

13 THINGS MEN FEARS THE MOST!

1. Fear of being turned down by a woman they’re attracted to. 2. Fear of not getting the job. 3. Fear of losing their job. 4. Fear of not reaching their target. 5. Fear of not satisfying a woman. 6. Fear of losing out the woman they love to another man. 7. Fear of being ridiculed or humiliated. 8. Fear of their opinion being rejected. 9. Fear of not having money and not being able to meet up to their responsibilities. 10. Fear of losing a contract. 11. Fear of being blackmailed and loose their prestige. 12. Fear of being criticized. 13. Fear of failure. This are the 13 things men fears the most and makes them unhappy if it happens!

7 MISTAKES MEN MAKES WITH WOMEN!

There are certain mistakes most men often makes with women, which hinders them from being successful with women, or be in control of their relationship. Here are 7 mistakes men often makes with women. 1. THINKING YOU CAN BUY A WOMAN’S LOVE WITH MONEY: Most men often makes a mistake of thinking that they can buy a woman’s affection with money, especially those that have it. Women knows what they want or who they want. If a woman does not love you to start with, your money won’t do the magic. True love cannot be bought with money, so spending your money to buy a woman’s love is ill-advised. 2. CONVINCING A WOMAN TO LIKE YOU: Real men who gets the most women do not talk until they convince a woman to like them. They simply do most of the work by their actions, their composure, qualities, potentials and how they package and present themselves in public speaks for them. Women are very good at observing, they observe whatever you do, especially how you present and package yourself. You need not convince a woman to like you, just be yourself, because she already knows if she’s going to give in or not. 3. BEING TOO DESPERATE TO GET HER: Women are not attracted to men that are desperate about them. They feel you’re pestering them and would not allow them their freedom. Whatever you’re desperate of getting will keep running away from you. If you’re desperate to get any woman, she’s sees you as a pest, and she will keep avoiding you. Just do your best, prove to her you’re good, if she’s interested in you, she knows it, if she’s not, you can’t change it. 4. ALWAYS SEEKING FOR HER PERMISSION OR APPROVAL: Women likes decisive men, men that can take decision and stand by it. Always seeking for a woman’s approval before taking any decision, means putting yourself below the standard she expects from you. Every woman knows that there are moments a situation becomes urgent, and you need not ask for her approval before making the right decision. Unable to decide at that moment doesn’t make you the real man. Learn to make certain decisions on your own. 5. NOT UNDERSTANDING A WOMAN’S BODY LANGUAGE: Woman knows exactly what they want from you at any particular time, but they will never tell you, sometimes they may express it through their body language. Your ability to understand their body language at any particular time, makes you the real man. Try to study her and understand her body language, and how she responds to you. 6. ALLOWING HER TO UNDERTAKE YOUR RESPONSIBILITY: Most men often makes a mistake of leaving their responsibility to a woman. This is very wrong, it negates your position as a man. Some men allow the woman to undertake all the financial responsibilities, while they do nothing. Eventhough she’s doing it because she loves you, its only for a short time, in the long run, she will turn back to accuse you of financial irresponsibility, and you’re unknowingly losing your position as the man. Always try to assume your responsibility as the man, she’s only there to support you. 7. NOT SAYING THE RIGHT WORDS TO HER: Most men do not know how to talk or approach a woman, some say the right words at the wrong time, while others, the wrong words at the right time. But being successful with women, requires you to know the right words to say and when to say it. Do you know that most women falls in love with the wrong men, because the wrong men knows the right words to say, and the right time.