Women knows much more about how to attract someone than men. And they’re very good at getting people to notice them. Here are the 10 attraction secrets! 1. KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT: A lot of men suffers from the problem of having to take whatever they can get. Women tends to get lots of suitors coming their way or pestering them, so they can be a little bit more picky. When you know what you want in a partner, you’re not only screening potential candidates, but you’re also making a very powerful statement as well, you’re also showing that you’re not desperate , and that you’re the one with the power because you’re definitely doing the judging. And when you’re the one with the power, you’re the one to be chased after. 2. BE THE PRIZE: Being the one that is chased after, means that you’ve got a certain amount of values to others. They want you for some reasons, so its now their job to run after you, and to get you. In order for this to happen, you must place a certain value on yourself, you must feel like you worth being chased after by others, and also communicate this with your actions and attitudes. “women always gets lots of men trying to impress them, but its the rare man they want to impress, who winds up with them”. 3. DRESS TO IMPRESS: Women attaches so much importance on how they look. It is for this reason that many of them gets lots of attention from men. They understands that what you wear, gets others to notice you. Infact, it is because, women are so much in-tune with fashion, they really tend to notice how a man dresses. A man who understands how to cultivate his own appearance and looks good, will definitely get a lot of attention from women, not just because he looks nice, but because he’s communicating he understands how important appearance is to them. 4. SMELL FANTASTIC: To often, men ignores the sense of smell. They don’t bother wearing a cologne or after-shave. But women knows that if you’re going to get someone’s attention, you need to appeal to all the senses. Wearing a good cologne around a woman can do wonders, and make her aroused in your presence. 5. BEING INTERESTING: Despite all the physical traits involved in attraction, having nothing but good looks can wear out quickly. This is why its important to be interesting, being interesting equates to having something to talk about, that the person you’re trying to attract can relate to. Being up to date on current issues, can make a woman feel more interested in spending time with you. 6. DO WHATS UNEXPECTED: Doing whats unexpected of you can create an atmosphere of excitement and uncertainty around you. It keeps people on their feet and attentive when around you. Don’t be comical when doing the unexpected, such as doing ridiculous things. Instead, you’ve got to play against expectations, for instance, rather than compliment a woman on her beautiful looks as a lot of men will do, compliment her on how intelligent she is. Always be different, when you do the unexpected, you keep the excitement alive. 7. BE HOT AND COLD: Feeling good all the time or feeling bad all the time, causes us to stray from the person we are with or attracted to. When you alternate between hot and cold emotions, you create an emotional roller coaster that keeps things interesting and your partner interested. Women do this all the time, they’ll act very interested and attracted to you, and make you feel good, but at other time, they’ll act very strange , ignore you like you’re not there and make you feel bad. This constant alternation of good and bad feelings keeps their partner interested in them and make the relationship more fun. 8. PLAY HARD TO GET: No one ever appreciates that which comes easy to them, only in rare occasions. Women knows this better than men. If they’re too easy, chances are that the man will abandon them after they’ve had their first conquest. The idea of playing hard to get, makes the hunter emotionally invest themselves in the outcome of their hunt. By making a woman work for your affections, you’re getting her to commit to wanting to being with you. 9. BE ADVENTUROUS: Being adventurous is different from doing the unexpected. Adventurous is about pushing boundaries and doing things that are new, and outside your typical comfort zone. Adventurous women usually intrigue men, and make men feel alive, and those good feelings becomes associated with the woman. Similarly, an adventurous man will easily sweep a woman off her feet, make her feel alive, and opens up how she experiences the world around her. 10. USE YOUR SEXUALITY: Women knows that being sexual and using their sexuality is a powerful tool in attracting men. But men typically have know idea of how to be sexual, they usually attributes sexuality to women because that’s how they understand sex. A man’s sexuality is seen in his manliness, he must act manly, and show what it is to be a man. Being strong, being courageous, being brave, being aggressive, etc. Are how a man can be sexy.
There are certain mistakes most men often makes with women, which hinders them from being successful with women, or be in control of their relationship. Here are 7 mistakes men often makes with women. 1. THINKING YOU CAN BUY A WOMAN’S LOVE WITH MONEY: Most men often makes a mistake of thinking that they can buy a woman’s affection with money, especially those that have it. Women knows what they want or who they want. If a woman does not love you to start with, your money won’t do the magic. True love cannot be bought with money, so spending your money to buy a woman’s love is ill-advised. 2. CONVINCING A WOMAN TO LIKE YOU: Real men who gets the most women do not talk until they convince a woman to like them. They simply do most of the work by their actions, their composure, qualities, potentials and how they package and present themselves in public speaks for them. Women are very good at observing, they observe whatever you do, especially how you present and package yourself. You need not convince a woman to like you, just be yourself, because she already knows if she’s going to give in or not. 3. BEING TOO DESPERATE TO GET HER: Women are not attracted to men that are desperate about them. They feel you’re pestering them and would not allow them their freedom. Whatever you’re desperate of getting will keep running away from you. If you’re desperate to get any woman, she’s sees you as a pest, and she will keep avoiding you. Just do your best, prove to her you’re good, if she’s interested in you, she knows it, if she’s not, you can’t change it. 4. ALWAYS SEEKING FOR HER PERMISSION OR APPROVAL: Women likes decisive men, men that can take decision and stand by it. Always seeking for a woman’s approval before taking any decision, means putting yourself below the standard she expects from you. Every woman knows that there are moments a situation becomes urgent, and you need not ask for her approval before making the right decision. Unable to decide at that moment doesn’t make you the real man. Learn to make certain decisions on your own. 5. NOT UNDERSTANDING A WOMAN’S BODY LANGUAGE: Woman knows exactly what they want from you at any particular time, but they will never tell you, sometimes they may express it through their body language. Your ability to understand their body language at any particular time, makes you the real man. Try to study her and understand her body language, and how she responds to you. 6. ALLOWING HER TO UNDERTAKE YOUR RESPONSIBILITY: Most men often makes a mistake of leaving their responsibility to a woman. This is very wrong, it negates your position as a man. Some men allow the woman to undertake all the financial responsibilities, while they do nothing. Eventhough she’s doing it because she loves you, its only for a short time, in the long run, she will turn back to accuse you of financial irresponsibility, and you’re unknowingly losing your position as the man. Always try to assume your responsibility as the man, she’s only there to support you. 7. NOT SAYING THE RIGHT WORDS TO HER: Most men do not know how to talk or approach a woman, some say the right words at the wrong time, while others, the wrong words at the right time. But being successful with women, requires you to know the right words to say and when to say it. Do you know that most women falls in love with the wrong men, because the wrong men knows the right words to say, and the right time.