The Power of Self-confidence.

There is only one distinguishing fact between successful and unsuccessful people, and that is “self-confidence”. The efficacy of self-confidence or believing in yourself can never be over-emphasized. It will definitely run a whole gamut of human race if all writers were to write down their concept or understanding of “believe” and its effect. What are some of the benefits of self confidence?
1.Self-confidence enables you to look beyond your present condition and status, and look forward to a more better and brighter future.
2.It helps you to plan and strategize on how to achieve your set goals.
3.It gets rid of worries and anxieties, and keeps you calm in the midst of troubles and challenges.
4.You will become more determined and resolute in pursuing your dreams and aspirations.
5.It focuses your mind on possibilities rather than impossibilities.
6. It gets you prepared to confront any challenge or difficulties in life.
7. It takes away timidity and inferiority.
It makes you discard every demoralizing or discouraging thoughts and opinions, and remain resolute towards achieving your goals.
8.You begin to see your strengths and abilities, rather than your weaknesses.
9.It makes success become very easy to achieve. These are some the benefits of self-confidence. You’re not successful does not mean you cannot or you lack the ability to succeed,it simply because you lack confidence in your self and in your abilities. Every human being is a potential success, but we are often being limited by our mindset and how we view things happening around us. That someone did not succeed in that area you’re interested in, does not mean you cannot. It all depends on your resolve to look beyond the failure of others, and be determined to make a difference. There is no limit to what the mind can conceive and achieve. Now, i’ll show you how to cultivate this self-confidence:
1.Always welcome challenges. Never run away from problems and challenges.
2.Learn how to take responsibilities.
3. Always be ready to tackle difficult tasks.
4.Undergo various trainings and acquire relevant skills.
5.Develop your skills by practicing them.
6.Avoid discouraging and demoralizing friends.
7.Cultivate the habit of doing it now. Avoid procrastination.
8.Read books that will build up your character and self-confidence.
9.Remind yourself of previous successes and achievements, and how you were able to overcome your challenges.
10.Realize your potentials and put them to work.
11.Always silence every dissenting voices that want to undermine your courage.
12.Never dwell on your past failures. If you can start practicing all these, i can assure of developing your self-confidence. Remember, “You can succeed when nobody believes in you, but you can’t when you don’t believe in yourself.”

DEVELOPING CONFIDENCE IN HANDLING CHALLENGES.

The first thing you must know about developing or improving your confidence level in handling your challenges is that, everyone is confronted by various degrees of challenges in life. As long as you go through this life, you can never abscond from life’s challenges. But the pertinent question is, how do you handle and overcome your challenges? The first step to overcoming your challenges is, always see every of your problem as a challenge. Never say, “i have a problem” rather, “i have a challenge”. Life is like an open battle field, and only those who are courageous and have the right mental attitude often emerges successful. A challenge is a contest that comes to test your courage and your ability to handle tough situations. Those who compete in a race, football or wrestling competition puts in all their best and do all it takes to emerge winner, and when they come out successful, it builds up their courage to compete for a higher one. That’s exactly what a challenge does to us, when you face your challenges and overcome, you develop more confidence in handling tougher ones. Every challenge that comes your way, is an opportunity to advance to the next level. When i was in college, there’s this particular subject i find very awkward to comprehend. The first time i studied it, i couldn’t understand anything, so i decided to pack it up. But it was necessary i must write and pass it in the exam. After a week, i picked it up again to study it, but this time, i was a bit relieved because i felt i was beginning to grab it. But after two days, i decided to go back to the same book, but to my chagrin, the whole book looked entirely new to me and even more complex, i felt I’ve not started. I took it as a challenge and decided to give it two hours everyday, whether i understand it or not. After some weeks of studying it, i began to understand the principles and it became so easy that i love reading it more than any other book.That’s exactly how challenges looks like, when challenges comes your way, never run away from it. Welcome it, confront it, and never give it any space. See every challenge as a stepping stone to greater accomplishment in life. Never entertain any fear or become timid. So many people loose out because of fear, always be courageous in confronting your challenges. The more you confront your challenges, the more you’re building up your confidence in handling greater tasks.