The Power of Self-confidence.

There is only one distinguishing fact between successful and unsuccessful people, and that is “self-confidence”. The efficacy of self-confidence or believing in yourself can never be over-emphasized. It will definitely run a whole gamut of human race if all writers were to write down their concept or understanding of “believe” and its effect. What are some of the benefits of self confidence?
1.Self-confidence enables you to look beyond your present condition and status, and look forward to a more better and brighter future.
2.It helps you to plan and strategize on how to achieve your set goals.
3.It gets rid of worries and anxieties, and keeps you calm in the midst of troubles and challenges.
4.You will become more determined and resolute in pursuing your dreams and aspirations.
5.It focuses your mind on possibilities rather than impossibilities.
6. It gets you prepared to confront any challenge or difficulties in life.
7. It takes away timidity and inferiority.
It makes you discard every demoralizing or discouraging thoughts and opinions, and remain resolute towards achieving your goals.
8.You begin to see your strengths and abilities, rather than your weaknesses.
9.It makes success become very easy to achieve. These are some the benefits of self-confidence. You’re not successful does not mean you cannot or you lack the ability to succeed,it simply because you lack confidence in your self and in your abilities. Every human being is a potential success, but we are often being limited by our mindset and how we view things happening around us. That someone did not succeed in that area you’re interested in, does not mean you cannot. It all depends on your resolve to look beyond the failure of others, and be determined to make a difference. There is no limit to what the mind can conceive and achieve. Now, i’ll show you how to cultivate this self-confidence:
1.Always welcome challenges. Never run away from problems and challenges.
2.Learn how to take responsibilities.
3. Always be ready to tackle difficult tasks.
4.Undergo various trainings and acquire relevant skills.
5.Develop your skills by practicing them.
6.Avoid discouraging and demoralizing friends.
7.Cultivate the habit of doing it now. Avoid procrastination.
8.Read books that will build up your character and self-confidence.
9.Remind yourself of previous successes and achievements, and how you were able to overcome your challenges.
10.Realize your potentials and put them to work.
11.Always silence every dissenting voices that want to undermine your courage.
12.Never dwell on your past failures. If you can start practicing all these, i can assure of developing your self-confidence. Remember, “You can succeed when nobody believes in you, but you can’t when you don’t believe in yourself.”

Negative Forces That Hinders Succes.

When a pilot enters a plane, there are four key things he must check before taking off. These are: The “lift”, “thrust”, “weight”, and “drag”. And all these four components works based on the principle of “force”. In life, there are forces that aids you to success and actualize your dreams, and there those that pulls you down or becomes an impediment on your way to success. This principle is also applicable to our relationship as human beings. There’s a school of thought that says, “your success in five years time, will depend on two things, the books you read and the people you meet”. Those four components of the aircraft, can also be linked to the categories of friends we have. There are friends who belongs to the “LIFT” category. These are friends who encourages and lifts us up when we are downcasted. They support our dreams, and can do anything to help us actualize it, even when we have failed and feel discouraged, they motivate us, they give us hope that rekindles our passion, and always stands by us. The second category, “THRUST” are also similar to the first, while the first category takes it very slowly, passionately appealing and encouraging us not to give up, these categories are daring, they try to break every barrier that tends to impede our journey to the acme of success. These categories can do whatever it takes to fire us to the zenith of success in life. They do not take no for an answer, and they’re very determined to help you actualize your dreams. The “WEIGHT” are those categories of people who tends to weigh us down. They make you believe you can’t make it or achieve your dream. They try to suppress every of your plans, and pulls you down to the level of failure. They are negative forces that needs to be overcomed in order to make it to the top. The last category is the “DRAG”. These categories drags you backwards unknowingly. You want to move forward, but they’re always there to drag you backwards. They’re also negative forces you should overcome, in order to move forward in life. The question now is, who are the people in your life right now? Are they positive forces that aids you to succeed or negative forces that hinders you??