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13 THINGS MEN FEARS THE MOST!

1. Fear of being turned down by a woman they’re attracted to. 2. Fear of not getting the job. 3. Fear of losing their job. 4. Fear of not reaching their target. 5. Fear of not satisfying a woman. 6. Fear of losing out the woman they love to another man. 7. Fear of being ridiculed or humiliated. 8. Fear of their opinion being rejected. 9. Fear of not having money and not being able to meet up to their responsibilities. 10. Fear of losing a contract. 11. Fear of being blackmailed and loose their prestige. 12. Fear of being criticized. 13. Fear of failure. This are the 13 things men fears the most and makes them unhappy if it happens!

13 THINGS MEN FEARS THE MOST!

1. Fear of being turned down by a woman they’re attracted to. 2. Fear of not getting the job. 3. Fear of losing their job. 4. Fear of not reaching their target. 5. Fear of not satisfying a woman. 6. Fear of losing out the woman they love to another man. 7. Fear of being ridiculed or humiliated. 8. Fear of their opinion being rejected. 9. Fear of not having money and not being able to meet up to their responsibilities. 10. Fear of losing a contract. 11. Fear of being blackmailed and loose their prestige. 12. Fear of being criticized. 13. Fear of failure. This are the 13 things men fears the most and makes them unhappy if it happens!

OVERCOMING SHYNESS: DEVELOPING MORE EASE AND CONFIDENCE IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS.

The first thing you ought to know if you’re suffering from shyness, is that you’re not alone. Infact majority of people reports feeling shy in social situations (even if it doesn’t look that way to others). Shyness is an internal experience, and is not necessarily visible to the outside world. Infact, shyness is often misconstrued with coldness, aloofness or “snootiness” by other people. You can be surrounded by shy people all of the time without realizing it. Just knowing these alone can help reduce the feeling of shyness and isolation a bit. One way to ease your general feeling of shyness anywhere is to, look around for someone who seems to even be more shy than you, and go talk to him or her. Approaching someone who feels more shy than you, will help you feel more confident and less alone. You can as well talk about your common feelings of discomfort in social situations and feel supported. After this successful experience, you’ll probably feel ready to branch out and talk to more people. At least, you may have found a new friend. When we are feeling shy, our attention is turned inward, and we are preoccupied with fears of being judged by other people. This is very inhibiting, and makes us feel awkward. One way to deal with this, is to turn our attention outward. You can do this, by focusing on what we like about the other person. Imaging saying positive, appreciative things to that person like: “i like your smile” or “i like how alive you appear today” or whatever it is, that makes the person appealing to you. Then feel and say these appreciations to the person in your head as you approach him or her. You will be coming towards that person with the positive energy of appreciation, rather than the energy of fear of rejection. This will help you feel more at ease and feel more better towards the other person. This technique can be quiet helpful. My last recommendation, is practice. The more you try these techniques, the more comfortable you’ll become. Always remember that you are not alone. Most of us do feel shy in social situations. Practice these techniques, and you’ll meet more people in general, and hopefully that special one. Shy people of the world unite!! Shynessshy-main_full2-468x366

OVERCOMING SHYNESS: DEVELOPING MORE EASE AND CONFIDENCE IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS.

The first thing you ought to know if you’re suffering from shyness, is that you’re not alone. Infact majority of people reports feeling shy in social situations (even if it doesn’t look that way to others). Shyness is an internal experience, and is not necessarily visible to the outside world. Infact, shyness is often misconstrued with coldness, aloofness or “snootiness” by other people. You can be surrounded by shy people all of the time without realizing it. Just knowing these alone can help reduce the feeling of shyness and isolation a bit. One way to ease your general feeling of shyness anywhere is to, look around for someone who seems to even be more shy than you, and go talk to him or her. Approaching someone who feels more shy than you, will help you feel more confident and less alone. You can as well talk about your common feelings of discomfort in social situations and feel supported. After this successful experience, you’ll probably feel ready to branch out and talk to more people. At least, you may have found a new friend. When we are feeling shy, our attention is turned inward, and we are preoccupied with fears of being judged by other people. This is very inhibiting, and makes us feel awkward. One way to deal with this, is to turn our attention outward. You can do this, by focusing on what we like about the other person. Imaging saying positive, appreciative things to that person like: “i like your smile” or “i like how alive you appear today” or whatever it is, that makes the person appealing to you. Then feel and say these appreciations to the person in your head as you approach him or her. You will be coming towards that person with the positive energy of appreciation, rather than the energy of fear of rejection. This will help you feel more at ease and feel more better towards the other person. This technique can be quiet helpful. My last recommendation, is practice. The more you try these techniques, the more comfortable you’ll become. Always remember that you are not alone. Most of us do feel shy in social situations. Practice these techniques, and you’ll meet more people in general, and hopefully that special one. Shy people of the world unite!!

7 MISTAKES MEN MAKES WITH WOMEN!

There are certain mistakes most men often makes with women, which hinders them from being successful with women, or be in control of their relationship. Here are 7 mistakes men often makes with women. 1. THINKING YOU CAN BUY A WOMAN’S LOVE WITH MONEY: Most men often makes a mistake of thinking that they can buy a woman’s affection with money, especially those that have it. Women knows what they want or who they want. If a woman does not love you to start with, your money won’t do the magic. True love cannot be bought with money, so spending your money to buy a woman’s love is ill-advised. 2. CONVINCING A WOMAN TO LIKE YOU: Real men who gets the most women do not talk until they convince a woman to like them. They simply do most of the work by their actions, their composure, qualities, potentials and how they package and present themselves in public speaks for them. Women are very good at observing, they observe whatever you do, especially how you present and package yourself. You need not convince a woman to like you, just be yourself, because she already knows if she’s going to give in or not. 3. BEING TOO DESPERATE TO GET HER: Women are not attracted to men that are desperate about them. They feel you’re pestering them and would not allow them their freedom. Whatever you’re desperate of getting will keep running away from you. If you’re desperate to get any woman, she’s sees you as a pest, and she will keep avoiding you. Just do your best, prove to her you’re good, if she’s interested in you, she knows it, if she’s not, you can’t change it. 4. ALWAYS SEEKING FOR HER PERMISSION OR APPROVAL: Women likes decisive men, men that can take decision and stand by it. Always seeking for a woman’s approval before taking any decision, means putting yourself below the standard she expects from you. Every woman knows that there are moments a situation becomes urgent, and you need not ask for her approval before making the right decision. Unable to decide at that moment doesn’t make you the real man. Learn to make certain decisions on your own. 5. NOT UNDERSTANDING A WOMAN’S BODY LANGUAGE: Woman knows exactly what they want from you at any particular time, but they will never tell you, sometimes they may express it through their body language. Your ability to understand their body language at any particular time, makes you the real man. Try to study her and understand her body language, and how she responds to you. 6. ALLOWING HER TO UNDERTAKE YOUR RESPONSIBILITY: Most men often makes a mistake of leaving their responsibility to a woman. This is very wrong, it negates your position as a man. Some men allow the woman to undertake all the financial responsibilities, while they do nothing. Eventhough she’s doing it because she loves you, its only for a short time, in the long run, she will turn back to accuse you of financial irresponsibility, and you’re unknowingly losing your position as the man. Always try to assume your responsibility as the man, she’s only there to support you. 7. NOT SAYING THE RIGHT WORDS TO HER: Most men do not know how to talk or approach a woman, some say the right words at the wrong time, while others, the wrong words at the right time. But being successful with women, requires you to know the right words to say and when to say it. Do you know that most women falls in love with the wrong men, because the wrong men knows the right words to say, and the right time.

WHAT OUR LEADERS OUGHT TO KNOW.

Do our contemporary leaders actually believe in the saying: “A good name is better than silver and gold”? Sometimes i wonder if they really believe the holy book, which says, “what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loose his own soul”? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? According to the holy scriptures, “if only in this life we have hope, then we’re of all men the most miserable”. Most of our leaders are drunk with materialism and self-aggrandizement. They want to own everything in the world, rather than use their wealth to impact positively on the lives of the less-privileged. They should remember that, naked we came into this world, and naked we shall all go back. No man came into this world with something, everything we acquire in life, will all end here, but the most important question to ask yourself is, “what hope do i have after this life”. This is a pertinent question you should be asking yourself. The world will never remember you because of the amount of wealth you acquire, but by the positive impact you made in other peoples lives, and your contribution to human development. Your wealth is only but for a short time and it will evaporate one day, but your meaningful contribution to the life of others, is what writes your name in gold. When you take a retrospective look of past leaders all over the world that were celebrated, they were not celebrated because of the amount of wealth they acquired, or the number cars and houses they own, but they were celebrated because of their meaningful contributions to life and their positive impacts in the lives of so many people. The only way to leave your footprints in the sands of time and be remembered by subsequent generations, is to add value to your generation, through making positive impacts in people’s lives and give your best to humanity.

WHAT OUR LEADERS OUGHT TO KNOW.

Do the leaders of this country believe in the saying: “A good name is better than silver and gold”? Sometimes i wonder if they really believe the holy book, which says, “what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loose his own soul”? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? According to the holy scriptures, “if only in this life we have hope, then we’re of all men the most miserable”. Most of our leaders are drunk with materialism and self-aggrandizement. They want to own everything in the world, rather than use their wealth to impact positively on the lives of the less-privileged. They should remember that, naked we came into this world, and naked we shall go back. No man came into this world with something, everything we acquire in life, will all end here, but the most important question to ask yourself is, “what hope do i have after this life”. This is a pertinent question you should be asking yourself. The world will never remember you because of the amount of wealth you acquire, but by the positive impact you made in other peoples lives, and your contribution to human development. Your wealth is only but for a short time and it will evaporate, but your meaningful contribution to the life of others, is what writes your name in gold.

WHAT OUR LEADERS OUGHT TO KNOW.

Do the leaders of this country believe in the saying: “A good name is better than silver and gold”? Sometimes i wonder if they really believe the holy book, which says, “what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loose his own soul”? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? According to the holy scriptures, “if only in this life we have hope, then we’re of all men the most miserable”. Most of our leaders are drunk with materialism and self-aggrandizement. They want to own everything in the world, rather than use their wealth to impact positively on the lives of the less-privileged. They should remember that, naked we came into this world, and naked we shall go back. No man came into this world with something, everything we acquire in life, will all end here, but the most important question to ask yourself is, “what hope do i have after this life”. This is a pertinent question you should be asking yourself. The world will never remember you because of the amount of wealth you acquire, but by the positive impact you made in other peoples lives, and your contribution to human development. Your wealth is only but for a short time and it will evaporate, but your meaningful contribution to the life of others, is what writes your name in gold.

WHAT OUR LEADERS OUGHT TO KNOW.

Do the leaders of this country believe in the saying: “A good name is better than silver and gold”? Sometimes i wonder if they really believe the holy book, which says, “what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loose his own soul”? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? According to the holy scriptures, “if only in this life we have hope, then we’re of all men the most miserable”. Most of our leaders are drunk with materialism and self-aggrandizement. They want to own everything in the world, rather than use their wealth to impact positively on the lives of the less-privileged. They should remember that, naked we came into this world, and naked we shall go back. No man came into this world with something, everything we acquire in life, will all end here, but the most important question to ask yourself is, “what hope do i have after this life”. This is a pertinent question you should be asking yourself. The world will never remember you because of the amount of wealth you acquire, but by the positive impact you made in other peoples lives, and your contribution to human development. Your wealth is only but for a short time and it will evaporate, but your meaningful contribution to the life of others, is what writes your name in gold.

WHAT OUR LEADERS OUGHT TO KNOW.

Do the leaders of this country believe in the saying: “A good name is better than silver and gold”? Sometimes i wonder if they really believe the holy book, which says, “what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loose his own soul”? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? According to the holy scriptures, “if only in this life we have hope, then we’re of all men the most miserable”. Most of our leaders are drunk with materialism and self-aggrandizement. They want to own everything in the world, rather than use their wealth to impact positively on the lives of the less-privileged. They should remember that, naked we came into this world, and naked we shall go back. No man came into this world with something, everything we acquire in life, will all end here, but the most important question to ask yourself is, “what hope do i have after this life”. This is a pertinent question you should be asking yourself. The world will never remember you because of the amount of wealth you acquire, but by the positive impact you made in other peoples lives, and your contribution to human development. Your wealth is only but for a short time and it will evaporate, but your meaningful contribution to the life of others, is what writes your name in gold.

WHAT OUR LEADERS OUGHT TO KNOW.

Do the leaders of this country believe in the saying: “A good name is better than silver and gold”? Sometimes i wonder if they really believe the holy book, which says, “what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loose his own soul”? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? According to the holy scriptures, “if only in this life we have hope, then we’re of all men the most miserable”. Most of our leaders are drunk with materialism and self-aggrandizement. They want to own everything in the world, rather than use their wealth to impact positively on the lives of the less-privileged. They should remember that, naked we came into this world, and naked we shall go back. No man came into this world with something, everything we acquire in life, will all end here, but the most important question to ask yourself is, “what hope do i have after this life”. This is a pertinent question you should be asking yourself. The world will never remember you because of the amount of wealth you acquire, but by the positive impact you made in other peoples lives, and your contribution to human development. Your wealth is only but for a short time and it will evaporate, but your meaningful contribution to the life of others, is what writes your name in gold.

WHAT OUR LEADERS OUGHT TO KNOW.

Do the leaders of this country believe in the saying: “A good name is better than silver and gold”? Sometimes i wonder if they really believe the holy book, which says, “what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loose his own soul”? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? According to the holy scriptures, “if only in this life we have hope, then we’re of all men the most miserable”. Most of our leaders are drunk with materialism and self-aggrandizement. They want to own everything in the world, rather than use their wealth to impact positively on the lives of the less-privileged. They should remember that, naked we came into this world, and naked we shall go back. No man came into this world with something, everything we acquire in life, will all end here, but the most important question to ask yourself is, “what hope do i have after this life”. This is a pertinent question you should be asking yourself. The world will never remember you because of the amount of wealth you acquire, but by the positive impact you made in other peoples lives, and your contribution to human development. Your wealth is only but for a short time and it will evaporate, but your meaningful contribution to the life of others, is what writes your name in gold.

WHAT OUR LEADERS OUGHT TO KNOW.

Do the leaders of this country believe in the saying: “A good name is better than silver and gold”? Sometimes i wonder if they really believe the holy book, which says, “what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loose his own soul”? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? According to the holy scriptures, “if only in this life we have hope, then we’re of all men the most miserable”. Most of our leaders are drunk with materialism and self-aggrandizement. They want to own everything in the world, rather than use their wealth to impact positively on the lives of the less-privileged. They should remember that, naked we came into this world, and naked we shall go back. No man came into this world with something, everything we acquire in life, will all end here, but the most important question to ask yourself is, “what hope do i have after this life”. This is a pertinent question you should be asking yourself. The world will never remember you because of the amount of wealth you acquire, but by the positive impact you made in other peoples lives, and your contribution to human development. Your wealth is only but for a short time and it will evaporate, but your meaningful contribution to the life of others, is what writes your name in gold.

7 MAJOR MISTAKES WOMEN MAKES IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.

Most relationship never ends in marriage due to some avoidable mistakes. Here are seven mistakes most women makes in their relationship that makes it not to culminate into marriage. 1. PRETENCE: A lot of women pretends so much in their relationship. They pretend to be who or what they’re not, some try to hide their feelings, and would never express their feelings to the man, they do not show their real character to the man, for him to know what they like or dislike. It is better to let a man know the real you in a relationship and let him judge or make his decision based on the real you. You never can tell what a man wants in a woman, and real men always judge a woman based on her actions, and not by her words. These is why it is important you let him know your real character, there’s absolutely no need to pretend about who you are, if he sincerely loves you, he will stick to you, and if not, you let him go, he’s definitely not the man for you. Don’t pretend about who you are, so that you don’t feel disappointed in the end. 2. BEING DESPERATE: Most things we’re often desperate about, never comes to us. There’s no need to be desperate about anything in life. Infact, desperation is a sign of hopelessness. If something does not belong to you, no matter how long you struggle for it, it will never come to you, and there’s nothing you can do about it. Most women are extremely desperate, they want to own the man, no man wants to be owned or put in a cage. And no man will want to marry a desperate woman. You may be in that relationship for many years, but if he’s not willing to marry you, no matter how hard you try to hold him back, he will not. Men likes freedom a lot, give him the freedom he deserves, if he’s the man for you, no matter how long it takes, he will definitely come for you. However, being protective of your man, is different from being desperate, you can protect him from any intruder, but always allow him his freedom. “What you’re desperate of getting, will keep running away from you”. 3. FORCING A MAN TO MARRY YOU: Marriage is not by force. Forcing a man to marry you, is simply, selling your right or pride as a woman. There’s no need of forcing a man into marrying you, all you’ve got to do as a woman, is do your best for the relationship, protect the relationship and pray for its success. If he’s destined for you, nothing can change or stop it. 4. BEING COMPLACENT ABOUT HIS AFFAIRS: Most women are very complacent about their relationship. They never show any sign of seriousness, they do not care about the activities of their man, or try to enquire about his challenges and how to help him come out of it. They’re only interested in what they will get from the relationship. Men likes that you try to know about their challenges, especially when he loves you, it makes him feel you know your duty as a woman, and you can contribute positively to his life. But if you always show a lackadasical attitude towards his affairs, he will disregard you in most of his activities, and may even want to keep another relationship outside. 5. BEING A LIABILITY: Most women have become a liability in their relationship. They put all their hopes on the man, without thinking of how to add value to their relationship. I do hear some women say, “i want to get married, so that he can take care of me”. That’s wrong, before a man can take care of you, you must be able to take care of yourself first, especially in a relationship. Don’t put your hope on any man, do something for yourself, be creative, seek ways of adding value to the relationship. It makes the man respect you, and sees you as a woman that can help to actualize his dreams. Don’t be a “liability”, always be an “asset”. 6. SACRIFICING YOUR FUTURE TO PLEASE HIM: Some women makes a very big mistake of sacrificing everything in their life just to please a man in a relationship.That’s not love, because love isn’t foolish. Some sacrifice their career, education, business and whatever they’ve got, just to make him stay in the relatnship. This is irresponsibility, no matter how hard you try to please a man, if he does not love you, you can’t make him stay. Don’t be deceived that you can make a man love you or stick to you by sacrificing all you’ve got. Just do the right and necessary things, then leave the rest for nature. 7. LISTENING TO FRIENDS OPINION ABOUT YOUR RELATNSHIP: Listening to your friends opinion about your man or your relatnship is not healthy for your relatnship. It can ruin your relatnship, remember that other women out there are looking for an opportunity to know about your relatnship or even be in your position. So don’t be gullible to your friends advice or opinions. Sift every advice before you accept it.

3 CATEGORIES OF PEOPLE IN THE WORLD AND THEIR REACTIONS!

Have you ever being hurt, humiliated or disdained by someone you love and respect, or probably a total stranger. How did you react to it? Human understanding and relationship has become a major problem in many circles, at the workplace, in the society, schools, in relationship between employers and employees, between a boss and his subordinates or even among colleagues. It is important we understand different people and their actions, reactions and behaviours, so that we can know how to relate with anyone, with little or no disagreement. There are bounds to be moments of misunderstanding as we relate with one another, because of our temperaments, different ideologies, and sometimes ego. But the ability to understand all this differences, will help to boost our relationship with each. When you take an unpleasant action against someone, you should always anticipate an equal and opposite reaction. These reaction often comes in three different forms, depending on who’s involved. A famous scientist, sir Isaac Newton, in 1884, published a work called ‘principia’ from which he clearly stated the 3 laws of motion. From his third law, i quote: “To every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction”. That means, actions and reactions are equal and opposite. For instance, if you fire a bullet from a gun, that’s an action, the opposite reaction is that you see yourself jerk backwards due to the momentum with which the bullet leaves the gun. These principle is also applicable in our day to day relationship as individuals. I’m going to reveal 3 different reactions by 3 categories of people to the same action against them. The first category are: THE BLUNT CATEGORY: This people, like their name implies, are very blunt in their reaction. When you hurt or humiliate this categories, they give it back to you immediately, without minding whose ox is gored. This categories believes in “A tooth for a tooth and tat for a tat” they do not care a hoot, what you feel or think about their demeanor. All their interest is, paying you back in your own coin instantly. This group are fearless, and you can’t step on their toes and get away with it. A lot of people often try to avoid having anything to do with them because of their aggressive nature. But one commendable fact about this category is that, they do not bear any grudges, after their immediate payback, they still seek way to reconcile with you and forget about all that has happened. The best way to relate with this category, is to endeavour as much as possible to not hurt or humiliate them, because you might not be ready for their reaction. The second category are the: PATIENT CATEGORY: This categories of people are very patient in their relationship with people. When you hurt or humiliate this category, they do not react immediately, they simply avoid you and walk away, especially if you’re a friend or someone they know. Avoiding you, does not mean they’re planning a revenge, rather, they do not like creating a scene. This category can avoid you for a very long time, it isn’t that they dislike you or they have any grudge against you, rather, they want to avoid anymore problem from you, because of their peaceful nature. However, this categories are very callous. When they do not react, it isn’t because they’re scared of you, rather, they’re giving you time to realize yourself and know they’re only being peaceful, if you change, then you can become the best of friends again. But if you continue to take their peaceful nature for granted and humiliate them without cessation, and they’re being pushed to the wall or loose their patient, hell will let loose. This categories are very friendly, infact they’re the most friendly people on earth, because they treat others the way they treat themselves. The best way to relate with this category, is to understand them and avoid taking their gentleness for granted. The last category, are the: PRETENTIOUS CATEGORY: This categories have a complex nature. When you hurt or humiliate this category, they do not retaliate immediately, they may walk away from you, or pretend not to be hurt by your action. Sometimes, they may even give you a grin of surprise, but believe you me, this group are not to be toiled with. This group are very difficult to comprehend. When they walk away or smile at you, you think they have forgiving you or forgotten about you action. Don’t be fooled, this categories, do not forgive or forget easily. They’re only planning a revenge or waiting for the right time to remind you of your actions against them, and then, they will unleash their ire against you. There peaceful disposition is not to be trusted, because it is only that of a graveyard. They can remind you of what you’ve done to them many years ago, and they must take a revenge on that. The only way to relate with this category, is to be careful with them,and try not to hurt them, because when you do,you’ve automatically become an enemy and a suspect.

8 Keys To Success With Women!

Being successful with women isn’t that awkward, if only you understand the BASICS, and execute them well. Then you’ll be way ahead of most other men out there. To be honest, most men are clueless, when it comes to being successful with women. Here are 8 keys to make you succeed with women. 1. ALWAYS JUDGE A WOMAN BY HER ACTIONS, NOT BY HER WORDS: If woman tells you, she like you, but does not respond to your touch, or if she says she likes you, but always acts differently. Don’t waste your time and energy, go by her actions. You have your eyes to see, and you must know when a woman’s actions does not match with her word. So that you dont feel being cheated or deceived. 2. DON’T TRY TO IMPRESS A WOMAN, RATHER, TRY TO INTEREST HER! When you “impress” a woman, you’re only getting her for the short term. The problem with impressing a woman, is that you have to always think of new tricks to keep her close. The man who impresses a woman, must be a magician, since he must always think of new tricks to bring her close. But the man who “interests” a woman is a painter. He paints beautifully that a person stands in awe to admire it. And each passing day it remains beautiful and everyone that sees the painting, knows that it is genuine beauty. Interest her, rather than impress her, so that you dont start what you can’t finish. Impressing a woman is “fake” interesting her, is “genuine” 3. NEVER FORCE A WOMAN TO LIKE YOU! If a woman never liked you to begin with, your money, gifts, flowers and chocolates won’t make her like you. In the same vein, if a woman already liked, your gifts are unnecessary, you can only give them to her, to get her more attracted to you, and love you more. 4. SELF-IMPROVEMENT. Attracting real women requires self improvement. When a man exercises and becomes stronger, he’s physical appearance changes, a woman notices. When a man studies hard and gets a job he desires, he changes, a woman notices it. When a man works on improving his life, and fulfilling his dreams, he changes, a woman take note of it. AMBITION is absolutely attractive to women. And this why real women are usually intrigued by a man who speaks and talks with ambition. These is why some women, will desire a man, even if he’s poor, if his ambition burns in his soul. Women associates ambition with potential! 5. LIVE A HAPPY LIFE: The only way to have a happy life, is to develop one for yourself, then leave an opening for others to come in and share it with you. A woman will not fulfil your life, you must fulfil it yourself. Then, she will come in and share in your happiness. Women dont like men that are always moody, they feel uncomfortable with such men, and may never want to come close to them. 6. BE THE BEST SALESMAN! Always observe the salesmen. There are certain salesmen that you’ll never buy from, and there are others you do. Observe the best salesmen, observe the way they talk to you, the way they package their products and how they act. Watch them, observe them, study them, and learn from them. Take it, or leave it, attracting a woman is the ability to sell. You have to prove to her why you’re better than the other men. 7. KNOW THIS RULE ABOUT WOMEN! A woman who truly likes you unconditionally, will always find time to be with you. She will never be too busy for you or to see you. Know this now! “if a woman ever tells you that she’s too busy to see you, you better understand that women makes time for men they love and cherish”. 8. TALK TO HER THE RIGHT WAY. There are lot of confusion on how to approach a woman and talk to her. Some people recommends pickup tips or memorizing words. But the sure way to get any woman to give you a listening ear is to, approach and talk to her like you’ve known her before. Approaching a woman like a total stranger makes her uncomfortable an insecured and she will immediately build a hedge inside her mind, that will be difficult for you to penetrate. But when you talk to her like a friend and not a stranger, she can stand to listen to you. Approaching her with statements like: helo, excuse me, or may i know you? Or you look familiar, especially when you know she’s a total stranger to you, isn’t the best. But start with words like: hello, how are you? You look good, i like your outfit. When you start that way, you’ve already done fifty percent of the job. Always look for something to commend about her, or try to know her present state. Use this keys and see your success with women!